The light colour effects depends upon the theme... If you use SE Theme creator, you can open the theme and set a colour for that particular theme.

Also the vibration feature for a flash menu must be embedded in the .swf file. Generally there are two versions of the flash menu.. one with vibration and one without vibration... try searching for the one with vibration.

You can also edit the .swf file in a hex editor and change some values to enable the vibration but I forgot how exactly to do it.......:confused: