Thanks seamonkey for the tip. I now have downloaded xs++ and the semc usb flas driver..
i then did what the xs++ said, press connect on xs++ -> hold C and insert usb cabel. But it dont work when i have the port on USB.. when i changed to COM 1 then the program says.. port opened ok. but it still dont work.. I downloaded the newest version of xs++. Maybe i should have a specific version of it?
I looked in the xs++ logg and here is what it says.

16:26:37| XS++ v3.1 (Darwin) Ready !

16:26:37| Executed on Microsoft Windows XP

17:07:34|

17:07:34| Attempting to open the interface...

17:07:34|

17:07:34| TURN OFF PHONE!

17:07:34| Hold 'C' button on phone and connect phone NOW.

17:07:34| You have 30 seconds...

17:07:34|

17:08:04| Error: Cannot open phone communication port

17:08:06| Disconnected... Unplug the phone

17:10:44|

17:10:44| Attempting to open the interface...

17:10:44|

17:10:44| TURN OFF PHONE!

17:10:44| Hold 'C' button on phone and connect phone NOW.

17:10:44| You have 30 seconds...

17:10:44|

17:11:15| Error: Cannot open phone communication port

17:11:17| Disconnected... Unplug the phone

17:11:44|

17:11:44| Attempting to open the interface...

17:15:26| Sorry, your phone is NOT SUPPORTED

17:15:26| Sendinging shutdown signal to phone...

17:15:28| Shutting down...

17:22:10| XS++ v3.1 (Darwin) Ready !

17:22:10| Executed on Microsoft Windows XP

17:23:46| Error: Server not found!

17:23:52| Shutting down...

17:25:37| XS++ v3.1 (Darwin) Ready !

17:25:37| Executed on Microsoft Windows XP

17:28:48|

17:28:48| Attempting to open the interface...

17:28:48|

17:28:48| TURN OFF PHONE!

17:28:48| Hold 'C' button on phone and connect phone NOW.

17:28:48| You have 30 seconds...

17:28:48|

17:29:19| Error: Cannot open phone communication port

17:29:21| Disconnected... Unplug the phone

17:30:20|

17:30:20| Attempting to open the interface...

17:30:20|

17:30:20| TURN OFF PHONE!

17:30:20| Hold 'C' button on phone and connect phone NOW.

17:30:20| You have 30 seconds...

17:30:20|

17:30:51| Error: Cannot open phone communication port

17:30:53| Disconnected... Unplug the phone

17:31:17|

17:31:17| Attempting to open the interface...

17:33:00| Disconnected... Unplug the phone

17:33:58|

17:33:58| Attempting to open the interface...

17:35:51| Disconnected... Unplug the phone