most people make the menu.swf for people who want to make a theme for it, or if you want, you can add the flash menu to ANY theme that you want to. Get a .tar extractor, rename the theme.thm to theme.tar, extract with the .tar extractor, and edit the xml file. you will see a line liek this (if it's not there, add it)
<Desktop_style Type="File" Source="equalizer.swf"/>
rename equalizer.swf to the theme you want. then save, recompile with .tar extractor.
Now renmae to .thm and now u have a theme with a flash menu.