okay. are you sure you uploaded the swf files in the right path? /tpa/preset/system/desktop/flash/ ? for editing themes i use sony ericsson theme creator (original from Sonyericsson site). then for calling flash menus into the theme i simply do it under ubuntu which treats .thm files as a .tar archive. under windows you have to use tugzip to decompress your .thm files.
i've heard that using Lasyk Theme creator is easier to call flash menus in the theme. take a look on it ;) regards!
i've tested Lasyk Theme Creator and indeed it's better for creating themes calling flash menus. my ancient method was to decompress the .thm file under ubuntu, edit the .xml file and then re-compress the file into a .thm file... with LAsyk Theme creator just edit the theme with it and type the flash menu's name in a little box...and save it :)




