not sure if this would help,....but.... i would erase both xs++ and Far... and use the all-in-one-pack form here--->
The All-in-One W810i Pack - Top Sony Forums
follow the steps exactly as explained.....
i also have a W810 with CID49.... and it worked great for me....
and have also added the flash menus as seen on this guys you tube vid--->
YouTube - w810i w810 with new flash menus
good luck..