K610i went dead need help....!!!!

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hii guys

my sony ericson K610i went dead yesterday i tried taking it to the shop and they said i needed to b flashed and they said it will cost me big......so i searched a lot and i read abt ppl sayin thy did thr flash by them self and alll. guys can u temme how to flash ma phone is thr any free way to flash ma phone plss temme 'm a noob abt phones and flashs so pls guys help me out ;m going nuts widout ma phone


one frend of mine gave me all the things needed to get strtd but now the problem is the the XS++ is not detecting my phone
xS++ is not detecting ma phone when i press "c" so i tried 2+5 and i detecs and then its getting disconnected 'm telling this by hearing the usb connect and disconnect sound so pls help so i tried wid se tools still the same at first it detects then it gets freezz i ll pos the two screen shots guys plss help......thanks:(

http://img268.imageshack.us/img268/7720/xspic.jpg (Xs++)