ok shoot.
i did all that.
i got that exact file:
(S500_R8BE001_MAIN_GENERIC_LY_RED53)

and did everything it told me to,
but im stuck on pat 2:

Now Double Click OFS. Jdflasher will start the file system loader and finally you should enter the phone file system.
Enter tpa and then preset and then finally custom folder.
You should now be in tpa\preset\custom\ folder in the phone file system.
Now copy all the the 3 files to this folder, executor.b, executor.jar, customize_upgrade.xml
Copying is easy, on the right side in Far Manger navigate to plugins\jdflasher\AnyCID and then drag and drop the individual files to the Left Side to the phone in tpa\prest\custom\
Before leaving make sure that you have all the 3 files in the phone file system, i.e On the LEFT hand side in tpa\prest\custom\.
Its now time to exit from file system. To Exit you need to go back to the root. You should on double click ” . . “ until you reach root, then click one more, you will get a message in RED. Its the option to shutdown file system loader, so click OK. Basically it says you should re-insert battery.
Disconnect phone and re-insert battery and start phone.

did everything and copied the 3 files onto the left side of the column and then exited and took out my battery and started the phone.
but it was still locked...what happened?

also, maybe its worth noting that executor.b file was in purple when i was in the far.exe program...