not all themes can connect to flash menus put no your phone. but you can edit .thm in order to make any theme work wit any of the flash menus in your tpa/......./flash.
if you patch your phone to move flash menu to other, you will not wast time wen you want to change the flash menus. jst look for the patch no the forum. i think you'll find it in here: Patches Scripts - Top Sony Forums