Unlocking a w-580i(not carrier)

I need a lil help guys and gals. I have a w 580 with a personal security password lock . Story......... Bitter x girl friend changed my password cause she said i love my phone more than her(not surprising lol!!!) . That's true! I had the phone unlocked bur that did'nt remove/erase the password. Sony said i need to send them the phone, pay them a sickning amount of $ to remove the pass word. Will some one hook a "w-580 lover " up please? I miss my phone 10x more than the b**** that locked it's daddy out of it. Lol!!!!!!!!!!!! JESSE A.