Need help flashing W880i PLEASE HELP ME OUT

Hi I have a Sony Ericsson W880i silver phone i really want to flash my phone but i know nothing of it i tried using XS++ but it keeps saying this:confused:
1:11:39| XS++ v3.1 (Darwin) Ready !
21:11:39| Executed on Microsoft Windows XP
21:11:53|
21:11:53| Attempting to open the interface...
21:11:53|
21:11:53| TURN OFF PHONE!
21:11:53| Hold 'C' button on phone and connect phone NOW.
21:11:53| You have 30 seconds...
21:12:23| Error: Cannot open phone communication port
21:12:25| Disconnected... Unplug the phone
21:12:30| Shutting down...
:confused:
I checked my software info and it says this
R8BA024
prgCXC1250648_HO
NG_KONG_AI
R8BA024

EROM: R3A016
prgCXC1250614_EROM_DB2020_AI_Fota_SIMLOCK_FLAFLA_S IBLEY_SEMCUSB

then its softwares..
Is it possible to flash this phone? if so how? please give me a link for the tutorial or something that can help me get flash themes onto it thanks

PS:I couldn't check the CID if someone can help me please tell me how :confused:

Did you install USB flash drivers - if you didn't , look here USB Flash Driver Installation - Guide - Top Sony Forums

Yeah i think thats the problem but i followed the tutorial using SEMC USB flash drivers but i also downloaded PC suite and for some reason my PC suite works but the XS++ and SEtools doesn't connect...
Also when i connect my phone using the C procedure the notification doesn't show up and i think i stuffed it up the first time how can i get that notification again?

u need to hold the 2 button not the c button on a w880

If i press 2 it doesn't power on...

Thanks man sorry super noob

now XS++ says this
13:59:20| XS++ v3.1 (Darwin) Ready !
13:59:20| Executed on Microsoft Windows XP
13:59:25|
13:59:25| Attempting to open the interface...
13:59:25|
13:59:25| TURN OFF PHONE!
13:59:25| Hold 'C' button on phone and connect phone NOW.
13:59:25| You have 30 seconds...
13:59:25|
13:59:38| Baseband ID: 9900
13:59:38| Protocol Version: 3.1
13:59:39| Phone name detected!
13:59:39|
13:59:39| Profiling SEMC phone...
13:59:39| Platform: DB2020
13:59:39| OTP CID: 51
13:59:39| EROM CID: 53
13:59:39| EROM Color: Red
13:59:39| IMEI: 35464901xxxxxx
13:59:39| Phone ID: W880
13:59:39| Region: HONG_KONG
13:59:39| CDA: CDA102719/15 R5A
13:59:39| Firmware Version: R8BA024
13:59:39| EROM: R3A016
13:59:39| Ready for operation!
How do i flash?? what files do i need? help

EROM CID: 53
13:59:39| EROM Color: Red
u have a cid 53 u will have to use jdflasher to flash it buddie
xs and se tool lite dont surport cid 53 phones

CAn you please tell me how? i tried using the far program but every thing gets messed up like the words are everywhere

[IMG]http://img5.imageshack.us/img5/4978/82151625cc5.th.jpg[/IMG]
here is the image

and also when i tried to put a mbn(firmware) onto the mkrest2 thing that rest format file doesn't show up why??